2024:
KinkSchool -
Fall Semester

"I want to do all the things, all the time, more and more, and now all NOW!" This class will talk about frenzy in the community and its many forms and help give tips on how to recognize and Cope with it.   

This class is an introduction to the concept and negotiation of authority transfer dynamics. Understand the foundational concepts and philosophies that inform authority transfer and the necessary components that go into negotiating and establishing an authority transfer. What are these relationships made of? What can you get out of them? What can they bring to you?

Do you feel like your service is on autopilot? Enter ‘Mindfulness’. Some people believe BDSM can be an engaging form of meditation. It requires living in the moment - the presence of mind and intense focus mentally and physically. All of BDSM is in-the-moment participation. If you are an s-type, being present in your service can help launch your role to depths unknown, and if you’re on the D-side creating structure can bring serenity. In this class, we’ll discuss how to hone your ability to focus, sustain, and shift attention for a deeper D/s connection and more authentic service through mindfulness. If we can turn pain into pleasure, we can certainly tap into the tenets of conscientiousness and apply them to our kink in meaningful ways.

One of the most pervasive myths around service is that there’s a right and wrong way to provide it. In this class, we will discuss many different styles of service and how to create protocols that fit your dynamic. 

Many of us compartmentalize our sexuality (only think about it, feel it or experience it when we are actually having sex). It is likely making it difficult to feel desirous of sex, to transition to sex, or to get turned on during sex. Staying connected to our sexuality, developing sensual practices, and expanding it into every aspect of our lives means being in regular connection with our pussy or cock. Get ready for tips and tricks to keep your pilot light LIT!

One in four adults will experience mental health challenges and one in five will live with a chronic mental illness in their lifetime. Living, loving, and engaging in BDSM while living with a mental illness (or having a partner with one) presents unique concerns and dynamics.

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This class covers what a mental illness is and is not; tools to help people communicate about their illness and how to ask partners effective questions about their illness; and special considerations for consent and play. The class breaks down mental illnesses along the parameters of the current DSM and each category is discussed. The class discusses concerns and considerations that should be understood before negotiating play and power exchange.

This class covers the science behind mindfulness practices and ways to integrate them into various BDSM plays. Mindfulness acts such as meditation, journaling, and gratitude exercises can be used to improve self-perception, address trauma, and help center people in the moment. There is a special section that focuses on how mindfulness can help people cope with chronic pain and enjoy BDSM.

So you caught a whiff of Leather and you’re hungry to learn and discover what being Leather is all about. Where does a novice begin? In this foundation-building class, Devyn Stone guides attendees on what Leather is. While very brief bits of Leather history will be given, this class aims to provide the attendee with a beginner’s working knowledge of what Leather is, examples of Leather traditions, the language used in Leather communities, and what it takes to take on Leather as an identifier. This class is welcome to all attendees, regardless of experience, but is tailored to be introductory level.

Brats are submissive rule-breakers, and Daddies are dominants who make the rules, so … what the hell? What is a bratty daddy? Who are they? How do you resolve the dichotomy between those two labels? What rules will be broken, and who decided those rules anyway? Learn about the creative, chaotic good of the kink world. Taught by the pied piper of brats himself.

​Communities today face a lot of obstacles when it comes to growth, and one issue that rears its ugly head is that of inclusivity. Many communities want to be inclusive, but it can be hard to gauge the best way to promote and take steps to fulfill that promise. This class explores how to do that, and gives space for community leaders and event hosts to connect with each other and form strategies to move their groups forward with racially inclusive practices. This class is divided into two parts, the first being on the challenges that people of the Global Majority face within the kink community. This includes facets like accessibility, forming relationships, and prejudice. The second part of this class explores what techniques can be used to promote and advance diversity and inclusivity in events and communities. There will also be a time during this portion of the class where participants can share ideas that have worked for them, and ask the group questions that may specifically pertain to their communities.

In this class, Rekkr will discuss the knowledge they’ve attained through their experience being the caretaker and partner of a disabled human navigating the BDSM and kink world together. The world and therefore, the BDSM/kink community contains an ever-growing number of disabled people. It is often surprising to those first experiencing it how inaccessible the world can be and how challenging it can be for someone with disabilities to navigate. It’s taken trial and error, and lots of learning to get to where they are today, but Rekkr has always had the heart for making sure their loved ones have their needs met. During this session, you will hear about some of the things Rekkr has learned through his journey in caring for their disabled partner.

CBT is a world of exploration let’s talk about getting started and getting the most out of a pair of balls they don’t have to be yours even.

Safety and security as you navigate the move to Total Power Exchange

Dan and dawn, authors of the books Hearts & Collars and The Polyamory Toolkit lead an interactive class on how to successfully combine polyamory and power exchange! From when the commonly accepted ideals of these relationship types seem to come into conflict, to keeping power exchange healthy in the midst of new relationship energy, as well as the issues of vulnerability and security that power exchange thrives on but polyamory can challenge, we will give you actual tools you can implement to assist all your relationships.

A written commitment to your place within a D/s dynamic can feel intoxicating yet daunting. But, communicating your desires, limits, and expectations can be an intimate building block to a successful and satisfying connection. Whether for BDSM beginners or lifestyle participants, written agreements can help you create safer play within the RACK framework. In this workshop, you'll be given the tools to identify what you want, how to express it in a truly unique and meaningful way to represent a "binding" agreement, and the opportunity to write a D/s contract outline. Don't skip the finer details of your dynamic.

Whether you’ve been in the scene for decades, or you’re brand new, it is vital to know about consent! We’ll go over what consent looks like in vanilla and BDSM spaces, why it matters, and how you can implement it in your daily lives!

Dive into the art of bootblacking with our Trauma-Informed Consent-Based Class. Learn essential techniques in a safe, consensual, and respectful environment. This class emphasizes enthusiastic consent, trauma-informed care, and self-care practices. Explore leather care foundations, set and respect boundaries, and foster a supportive community. No prior experience is needed; just bring a willingness to learn and a commitment to creating a positive, inclusive space. Join us for an empowering journey into bootblacking that prioritizes well-being and community building.

Whether you’ve been in the scene for decades, or you’re brand new, it is vital to know about consent! We’ll go over what consent looks like in vanilla and BDSM spaces, why it matters, and how you can implement it in your daily lives!

A workshop delving into the intrinsic feelings driving our hottest turn-ons. Our Core Desires serve as the underpinning emotions that ignite our passion and guide our intimate connections. Throughout this journey, we’ll unearth the roots of these desires and harness this self-awareness to confidently communicate our wants and needs. Understanding your Core Desires is the key to unlocking your most arousing sexual encounters. We’ll explore how sexual experiences can act as a therapeutic tool to heal past wounds, helping you identify your desires and navigate incompatible core desires within relationships.

In this thought-provoking and informative class, we delve into the essential topic of creating inclusive spaces within the realm of kink. Designed for individuals passionate about fostering a safe and welcoming environment for all, this class offers valuable insights and practical strategies to promote inclusivity and diversity.

Throughout the course, participants will explore the importance of understanding and respecting different identities, orientations, and experiences within the kink community. We will delve into topics such as gender identity, sexual orientation, relationship dynamics, and neurodiversity, among others, to gain a comprehensive understanding of the diverse range of individuals who engage in kink.

Additionally, this class will address the significance of consent, boundaries, and negotiation within an inclusive kink space. Participants will gain insight into how to foster a culture that encourages clear and ongoing consent practices, ensuring that all individuals feel safe and empowered to explore their desires.

By the end of this class, participants will have developed a deeper understanding of the importance of inclusivity in kink spaces. They will be equipped with the knowledge and skills to actively create and maintain an inclusive environment. Whether you are a seasoned kink practitioner or new to the community, this class offers valuable insights and practical guidance for fostering a space that celebrates diversity and promotes the well-being of all individuals involved.

Join us in this transformative class and become an advocate for inclusivity, respect, and empowerment within your kink space. Together, we can create a community that embraces and supports the diverse identities and experiences of all individuals.

Embark on a unique journey of self-discovery and empowerment in our class, "Diary of a Self-Collared Slave." This workshop delves into the intersection of self M/s (Master/slave dynamics) and radical self-love, offering a profound exploration of personal autonomy and devotion.

.Participating in BDSM activities can sometimes be likened to a delicate dance with our mortality. Our individual risk profiles, whether acknowledged consciously or not, dictate the extent to which we are willing to venture close to the boundaries of our physical and mental well-being. Within our community, encountering grief, loss, and the specter of mortality is a profound and impactful experience, serving as both a somber reflection and a shock to our nervous system. This can occur through various means both primary and secondary experiences: be it medical circumstances, accidents, natural events, or when the odds are not in our favor. This class aims to explore the reasons behind the profound impact of grief and loss within our community, guide individuals in self-care during times of both kink and grief, and delve into the palpable reality of mortality that we confront on a daily basis.

What the heck even IS asexuality? Or aromanticism, for that matter? I’m glad you asked! We’ll go over the whole spectrum, its many shades of grey, and how it can exist in a kinky context!

In this thought-provoking class, Mx. Dizzy invites participants to delve into a topic that is often overlooked: the intersection of disability and the kink community. With a focus on exploration and introspection, Mx. Dizzy guides attendees on a journey to discover their own disabled deviance within the realm of kink.

This class sheds light on the transformative power of kink for individuals living with disabilities. By emphasizing its customizable and adaptable nature, participants will learn how kink can serve as a vital tool for empowerment. From pain management to social engagement; from confidence building to the exploration and control of sensations, kink offers a unique avenue for individuals to experience autonomy and more.

This class is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of disability and its relationship with kink. It is particularly beneficial for individuals with disabilities, those who love someone with a disability, or community leaders who aim to create inclusive spaces. Drawing from their journey with disability and kinks since 2015, Mx. Dizzy brings a wealth of knowledge and firsthand experience to enrich the learning process.

By participating in this class, attendees will gain valuable insights and practical strategies to foster a more inclusive and supportive environment within their communities. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from someone who has dedicated themselves to empowering individuals with disabilities through the exploration of kink.

You can see it; it's electric!  You gotta feel it; it's electric! The violet/neon wand is a versatile tool for electric play. They are used to apply low-current, high-voltage, high-frequency electricity to the body. This class covers how to get charged up about your electro-play with various probes. It shouldn’t come as a shock, but safety and consent are also covered in class. Can you picture that?

Engaging in kink involves inherent risks, touching on aspects of our social, physical, and mental well-being. However, acknowledging these dangers doesn't automatically deem such pursuits negative. Similar to adventurous activities like bungee jumping or skydiving, the key lies in understanding and embracing your personal Risk Profile. This concept is integral to RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and serves as a crucial tool for navigating the landscape of kink, aiding in the selection of suitable play partners and the crafting of scenes.

In this class, we will delve into the significance of establishing a Risk Profile, exploring the essential information to consider before creating one. The session will guide you through the steps necessary to construct a personalized Risk Profile, empowering you to make informed decisions about your kink experiences.

Every kink or fetish has two sides, and financial domination is no exception. This class provides an in-depth look at the financial domination dynamic from a rarely discussed perspective: that of the submissive or bottom. We'll explore the psychology behind financial domination and submission, various interactions within financial kink—from simple transactions like meeting for coffee to more complex engagements—and important considerations when navigating these relationships. Additionally, we’ll discuss common scams to watch for. LeatherChaplain will also share personal experiences in managing monetary transactional relationships.

There are many ways that folks transition- including socially and medically. But, me? I’m transitioning through body modification! I will share my experience with my gender, and how piercings, tattoos, and heavier mods have made me feel more at home in my body!

There are as many ways to practice BDSM and power exchange as there are people practicing these things. We all engage in these practices for a myriad of reasons. Understanding what underlies your desire and what your needs are helps create the experiences and relationships you most desire.

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This class covers the basics of what influences our desires, both physically and emotionally. It then covers how to untangle your "should" desire from what you actually want. It covers ways to undo negative messaging about our bodies, sexuality, and desires.

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Finally, it provides people with tools to continue to explore what they want in relationships and sex.

Pony Play can be an incredibly rewarding activity for both Handlers and for their Ponies. While Charlie can (and frequently does) spend hours passionately discussing this topic, this class will focus on how you can explore Pony Play in fun and exciting ways, even if you have no experience with it previously. We will touch on a number of topics, including some of the different types of Pony Play, pony grooming, tack, training, and groundwork. Hopefully, by the end, you will be better able to understand why Charlie, along with many other ponies and handlers, are so passionate about this form of play.

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Hypnosis is one of those kinks we all hear about eventually but are hard to understand except experientially. This session is an opportunity to experience trance without any specifically erotic or sexual language. This session will use a fairly standard relaxation induction and is based around the sensation of drifting. The group trance will be preceded by a brief explanation of hypnosis and trance and how to best prepare for trance. It is suggested people use the bathroom and grab a glass of water before we begin 

What is a Bimbo, Doll, or Trophy? Myths about Bimbos, Dolls, and Trophies. Differences and similarities between dolls, bimbos, and trophies Who can be a bimbo, doll, or trophy? Are there any requirements? How can you be your best "fake" self? How to dress like a Bimbo. How being a bimbo/doll/trophy can help improve self-image. D/s within Bimbo/Dollification.

Dan and dawn, a full-time power exchange couple and married partners since 2001, lead a presentation on navigating relationships that include a full-time power exchange dynamic and a loving and caring partnership. They will discuss topics such as ‘How do I punish the one I love’; does being in love with my slave give them too much power; does love temper some decisions… should it? And should I marry my slave? And lots more!

By and large many participants in the kink and BDSM scene fall anywhere in the autism spectrum. This is especially true for those who are submissive and on the right side of the slash, which often means that negotiating and sustaining a dynamic with an autistic submissive manifests very differently than what is illustrated in fantasy. In this class, Allen guides attendees through negotiations and setting up dynamic relationships for success with autistic submissives. Topics addressed will include comfort and care, implementing direct communication, and providing support through nonverbal and socially anxious periods. While this class may be most beneficial to those who are autistic and/or are in dynamics with autistic people, anyone with an interest is strongly welcomed and encouraged to attend!

This is a beginners entry into hypno I will be going through what hypno is some rudermenatart conset and doing a short Q&Q afterwards

Religious upbringing from childhood to adulthood can deeply shape fantasies, self-image, and sexual expression, often fueling feelings of shame, guilt, blasphemy, and repression. This workshop delves into the complex intersection between Religious Trauma and Sexual Repression, examining how even a faith tradition you may not have practiced in decades can create barriers to embracing kink today. Together, we’ll unpack the impact of messages from family systems, societal norms, social media, and other influential sources. The presenter will also touch on current media topics and relevant events, bringing a timely perspective to this exploration of faith, trauma, and sexuality.

Body drumming is a form of massage-like rhythmic impact play where the drummer hits the receiver with drumsticks of different textures, sizes, and shapes in sync with the music, in conjunction with sensory deprivation via headphones and blindfold to create the illusion to the receiver that their own body is the musical instrument creating the sounds. Body drumming can be sensual, sadistic, or even orgasmic. The class will cover technique, equipment needed, music selection, and more.

What it is (and isn't) may surprise you! Includes day in the life depiction, definitions and terminology, and dispelling myths.

What it is (and isn't) may surprise you! Includes day in the life depiction, definitions and terminology, and dispelling myths.

What it is (and isn't) may surprise you! Includes day in the life depiction, definitions and terminology, and dispelling myths.

Many of us can’t always get to see needle play live, so we are bringing the demo to you💉 This is mostly a demonstration with little educational elements to this but do feel free to ask questions during the demo and we will do our best to answer🩸

⚠️TRIGGER WARNING: There will be real human blood, needles both in skin and outside of skin. If this makes you uncomfortable I encourage you to skip this one out!

If you've ever thought that locking up a willing victim and throwing away the key was as easy as 1, 2, 3...Come take a peak at a real life account of a Femdom with over 100 keys experience and men who love locks. We'll discuss desire breakdown from both sides, history, chastity options for any gender, tips, tricks, and fun games that enhance the experience. It's not as simple as ‘set it and forget it’ if you want the best from a heady mind-bending reality surrender. Don't shy away from your sexy fantasy of being kept under lock and key or wearing the seductive, shiny key to bliss.

This class isn’t about what the Old Guard Leather was or to create debate on its history or creation. Instead, we will examine how the impact of these norms has influenced the Leather subculture’s past, present, and future. Are these ideas just relics of a bygone era? Are there lessons we can still learn? How do we judge and uphold the cultural norms of 30+ years ago through the lens of a very different worldview? This class invites introspection and questioning what we as a subculture mean when we say something is Old Guard.

​Consensual nonconsent is like riding a rollercoaster; once the lap bar is lowered, we have committed to staying along for the ride until it’s over, even if we throw up, a screw comes loose, or the car comes completely off the track. Why would someone knowingly engage in this level of risk? In consensual nonconsent, we take the thrill of the ride, harness its innate power, and incorporate it into how we play, fuck, and live to create encounters with reduced risk and elevated accountability.

Join us as we delve into an intense, thought-provoking, and possibly challenging topic that pulls back the layers of what makes CNC fundamentally different from rape or violated consent. We will explore the deep physical and psychological satisfaction that comes from engaging in CNC

Looking to play in a world where we use biochemistry to trauma bond we need to look at our capacity as it’s the cornerstone of consent. Showing up ethically means you have your basics managed. what does that look like and how does it work?

This class will provide a broad overview of some basic principles and techniques that use sexual energy for a variety of magical purposes. A lot of what is done in a kink practice could be contextualized as magic, so you may already be doing it without knowing! This class will provide some ideas about ways to make your kink and BDSM more intentional, as well as explore some basic techniques and thoughts about how kink and BDSM activities are incorporated into magic and ritual.

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- Go over some basic principles of magic (it’s not like what you see in the movies) and sex magic and consent within magic
- Demonstrate the use of sigil magic and talk about using sexual energy to charge sigils.
- Share about things we’ve experimented with in our practices
- Open the floor to discussion and questions

Note: during the class, you will be taught how to create a sigil. Please have an intention in mind if you would like to participate in this part of the class. You will need paper and something to write with.

Welcome to Kink. Now how do you take your kink from fantasy to reality and get what you want out of the process with consent?

.his is a 201 class where I give some tips and tricks from people who may typically play in person and how to transition to online and even give some tips for some seasoned online tisters

Ah, the steps to practical ownership and the phases of authority transfer. We negotiate play, right? Well, what about negotiating a dynamic? As many can attest, dynamics are not just about protocols, punishments, and service. Dive into pragmatism with Devyn in understanding compatibility (and how to assess it) and discover your needs and wants in all aspects of authority transfer. Together, you’ll establish a process designed to get you exactly what you're looking for! 

In this comprehensive class, we delve into the nuanced aspects of BDSM scenes, acknowledging that, at times, the carefully choreographed dynamics may encounter unforeseen challenges. Regardless of one's role—be it Top/Dom or bottom/submissive—participants are encouraged to recognize that mishaps, mistakes, and occasional crises are universal possibilities. From minor hiccups to more significant deviations, the curriculum equips individuals with a keen understanding of common scenarios that can cause a scene to veer off course.

The course not only provides insights into recognizing these unexpected moments but also offers practical guidance on how to effectively manage and navigate through them. Participants will learn strategies for addressing issues in the heat of the moment and gain valuable tools to facilitate the healing process and progression beyond the incident. By fostering a proactive approach to potential challenges, this class empowers individuals within the BDSM community to cultivate resilience and enhance their overall scene experiences.